Memories Of My Guitar Playing Husband
It's hard for me to pick just one piece of music as so many songs bring back strong emotions, both happy memories and sadness that he's no longer here. I'm so lucky that he was in my life for 27 years.
Long Haired Hippy S##t
My dad hated my hard rock music, the title of this story was his comment on it.
A Tale of Two Halves
I was given the album one Christmas and my father and I danced round the lounge together. We never danced together before and not long after this he was taken ill.
No Greater Gift
Every time it came on the radio it was an indication to her of impending danger and invariably she was right. He had given his life to save that of his friend.
David, My Dad
Dad was a massive Neil Diamond fan, seeing him in concert many times in different countries. Here’s his personal favourite. But to be fair, any Neil Diamond track has me in tears
My Mum And The Skylarks
I can picture it now like a video in my mind: the soft clouds, pockets of blue sky, the exhilaration from the climb, the feel of the wind on my face, and Mum laughing kindly at my lack of skill.the story …
Marquetry Patterns
He began to learn to play the piano aged 40 when I was 3. His practising is part of my earliest memories of him, on a lovely piano with marquetry patterns.
The Day Daddy Died (4/17/1981)
Even though he had a breathing tube in his mouth, was heavily sedated and couldn't respond, I know I saw his lips move as if he were trying to tell me he loved me, too.
My Little Brother
My dad made him a wheeled 'trolley' when he got bigger, he could lie on it and pull himself along, then he progressed to a small red wheelchair which I loved to have a go in, squealing with excitement due to the speed.
Slips Her Hand In My Hand
His hands were huge and he felt so protective. Even when he got older we used to hold hands.
Self-Discovery
Whenever I hear this song, it doesn't make me sad, rather it makes me happy, it's one of the ways I communicate with God.
My Brother's Goodbye
I looked around at all those who loved him and whose lives he'd changed - just by being him.
My Big Brother
At first, listening to this particular song was an emotional challenge, it was just too painful. Over time, however, it has become a source of comfort.
Did I Ever Tell You You're My Hero?
She was, and always will be my hero, throughout my life and most certainly throughout the course of her death.
My Dear Sweet Brother
It was in the fall and I would fall asleep to the song “Angel” and I would fall asleep while I was crying because I was already grieving him.
A Love Song Too Late
It was in recent years that I learned this song was one of my grandma’s favorites and I can see why.
My Wayward ‘Son’
The power of algorithms. Inevitable. Scientific. Yet still a bit spooky. And as he lay there, the ‘elephant in the room’, ever present, of his impending death, we played the most poignant, relevant, achingly appropriate lyrics.